HIKMAT 7 AYAT

Menurut tafsir Hanafi, barang siapa hafal dan mengamalkan tujuh kalimat , ia terpandang mulia di sisi Allah dan Malaikat serta diampuni dosa-dosanya walau sebanyak buih-buih laut.


1- Mengucap Bismillah pada tiap-tiap hendak melakukan sesuatu

2- Mengucap Alhamdulillah pada tiap-tiap selesai melakukan sesuatu

3- Mengucap Astagfirullah jika lidah terselip perkataan yang tidak patut

4- Mengucap Insya Allah jika merencanakan membuat sesuatu di hari esok

5- Mengucap La haula wala kuwata illa billah jika menghadapi sesuatu tak disukai dan tak diingini

6- Mengucap inna lillahi wa inna ilahi rajiun jika menghadapi dan menerima musibah

7- Mengucap La ilaha illa Allah Muhammad Rasulullah sepanjang siang malam sehingga tak terpisah dari lidahnya.


Mudah-mudahan ingat dan amalkan. Walaupun sikit-sikit lama-kelamaan menjadi kebiasaan. Semoga menjadi amalan seharian.

Fenomena 40an

Benarkah ‘life starts at 40″? Bagi Nabi Muhammad, umur 40 adalah bermulanya saat kerasulan.

Bagi sesetengah lelaki, umur 40 menjadi titik tolak kepada perubahan dalam hidup. Kalau ia terus dengan kehidupan yang melalaikan dan memiliki tabiat tertentu yang tidak baik, maka lazimnya ia akan teruskan cara hidup yang demikian melainkan ia cepat sedar dan kembali ke pangkal jalan. Manakala bagi sesetengah lelaki pula, sekitar umur 40 ialah tempoh waktu ‘miang’ dan ‘darah muda’ kembali semula. Sejauhmanakah kebenarannya?

Bagi sesetengah orang perempuan, umur 40 adalah suatu yang menakutkan. Kata orang, perempuan kalau

umur 20 maknanya mengancam
umur 30 maknanya macam-macam
umur 40 maknanya diancam
umur 50 maknanya terancam
umur 60 maknanya dah tak boleh cam

Izinkan saya menulis dalam bahasa Inggeris pula

Well, some of us never expected “something” strange will happen…after 10-20 years of marriage….that may stir the relationship of a “loving” couple…a relationship that is based on love (once). We are not exposed to this phenomena. We didn’t know about it until we go through our marriage and through an age period of 35 – 45 years old

Some observations that we could see in the phenomena at 40 (35-45 yrs old) among men are:

1. sexual desire is increasing, “miang muda datang balik”
2. hormone is increasing too
3. looking for different “taste” if routine of life looks the same over the years and “nothing” new or “refreshing” in the relationship
4. “life starts at 40 again”
5. “man is like coconut milk; the older he goes, the thicker his macho is”
6. man thinks that his partner, who looks the “same” in terms of beauty, shape, attitude, care more of the children, house and career…which will take away some quality time that may contribute to “escapism” among men

Among women, we maty find that they:

1. care less about beauty
2. care less about shape
3. take for granted that her man is satisfied enough after years of romance
4. take for granted that her man is supposed to be a responsbile man, as a father, a hubby, …. by the age of 40
5. routine of life is thought to be stable and balance, nothing to worry….
6. his “loyalty” is there already
7. at about 40, man should think of how be more devoted to God

In many cases, these “hopes’ or “perceptions” or “expectations” are not true or may not necessarily be true.

Few things to do by the couple
• get in shape
• take care of you beauty
• change environment
• change setting for the house quarterly
• renew bedroom setting
• recreation once a month (stay outside)
• eating out with family once, candle light, dating again
• see album of pictures together, talk about the past once a while
• always celebrate important dates
• change setting for love making
• exchange presents
• visit memorable places where love started to spark in life between you and him
• put on different sexy dresses occasionally
• diversify ways to seduce him
• work together on a series of projects
• hugs and kisses everyday in the morning and evening
• always try to accompany him whenever is possible
• say “love u” at the end of every telephone conversation
• say “miss u” when don’t meet more than a day
• say the kid misses u when he is not home more than a day, make up stories…that the kid says papa…pointing finger at his picture

The Evolution of Perfume - Facts And History

The chronicle of perfume refers to its wide use in ancient Egypt, Rome and the Middle East. Perfume was extensively used by women as beautification ritual and status, besides religious rituals. It also played a significant role in courtship and romance acts.

Classic perfumes were made using aromatic natural raw materials acquired from botanical as well as animal sources. The finished perfumes turned to be highly expensive revealing the production costs and only the opulent class of people could afford it. However, owing to technological advancements and modern chemistry the classic perfume saw gradual transformation into its contemporary version.

The contemporary evolution process initiated in Grasse, South France and stretched to Paris. Grasse is recognized as the perfume and flower capital as it is steeped in the history of perfume. Grasse offers the finest perfumes to all discerning perfumers in the world. Mammoth changes have taken place in perfumery. The art of making perfume today involves creativity and technology. Today, the fruition of perfume has ascertained that they are not reserved only for the privileged class alone. Modern perfumes are available in affordable prices as they are manufactured using aroma chemicals and many man-made aromatic compounds.

Niche and natural perfumers make perfumes in classic style. Big perfume houses on occasions combine aroma chemicals with botanical oils and emerge with novel perfumes. Wearing perfumes is a way of pampering oneself. Men and women apply perfume as pleasure or to express intimacy. However, the fragrance of perfume is appreciated as it has a lingering effect.

Conversely, a perfume smelling good on one person may not smell good on another, and this is due to the interaction between the body and the fragrance that produces a unique scent perception based on the body chemistry. Hence, body chemistry is considered to be a significant factor in creating or even in buying a perfume. A perfume having a good smell on a smelling strip may not be good on you.

Perfume should be purchased only after trying it on your body. You can squirt some perfume on the inside of your wrist and try to smell it after sometime. If the perfume smell is retained, you can get going by buying the perfume or select another one that blends your body. Few things that should be done before purchasing a perfume is that smell the scent and apply it immediately. Its fragrance should be apparent in the surrounding and also should have the ability of lasting longer.

Speaking of perfumes, it is believed that women possess better sense of smell in comparison to men. Similarly, the smell sense is sharper in the afternoons and remembering the smell is very essential. Conversely, perfume fragrance is long lasting on oily skin than dry skins. In general, you can have lasting effect of perfume when the concentration and the aromatic oils in the perfume are higher and heavier.

Following certain guidelines for wearing perfumes helps in retaining it for a longer period. Perfumes have their best effect when applied on pulse points. Subsequently, applying perfumes on the wrist, inside the elbows and behind the ears is suggested. Spraying perfume in the bra cleavage keeps the scent released continuously.

There are plenty of cheap perfume available indicating great savings. Cheap perfume is not considered to be the best purchase as the ingredients used may not be of good standards. However, caution is expected as counterfeit products may smell like original perfume, but made of low grade quality ingredients causing harm to your skin. Hence, buying perfumes of big brands that tries to clear their discontinued products or some liquidated stock is worth purchasing as the price tag will also be appropriate.

SELMAT HARI RAYA ..MAAF ZAHIR BATIN

When the sun has set, and day is done-
I'll break this chain, but only one.
By the end of Ramadan, this whole chain will be all gone!
It's time for Eid and lots of fun!!!

A spanking way to be happy(Rotan Dapat "UBATI" Depresi & Ketagihan Arak)

[CORPUN.COM] Russian scientists claim a beating on the buttocks with a strong cane is the perfect way to cure everything from depression to alcoholism by releasing the body's natural "happy chemicals" known as endorphins.

Endorphins are produced in the brain in response to high levels of stress and pain that lead to feelings of euphoria, reduction of appetite, the release of sex hormones and enhancement of the immune response. They have a similar effect on pain to drugs such as morphine and codeine, but do not lead to dependence.

The scientists, headed by biologist Sergei Speransky, claim corporal punishment not only rids people of addictions but also helps overcome depression and suicidal tendencies, the daily Izvestia reported.

The scientists said that when caned, a person's body will release masses of endorphins, making them happier. The caning, they found, counteracts a lack of enthusiasm for life which they claim is the cause of addictions, suicidal tendencies and psychosomatic disorders.

The scientists, who said they have had positive results with people testing their cane therapy, recommend a standard treatment course of 30 sessions with 60 of the best, delivered on the buttocks by a person of average build.

They highlighted how, in the 19th century, German doctors had achieved positive results on everything from depression to pneumonia by caning their patients.

Marina Chuhrova, who took part in preparing the report, said of the 10 patients she caned regularly to test the results: "At first they didn't like it, but when they started to feel the benefits they kept asking for more."

The Russian team is now charging for the sessions, getting $A140 for a standard treatment.

Research by other scientists has suggested endorphins can be obtained by less painful means. Foods such as chocolate or chilli peppers can also lead to enhanced secretion of endorphins. Exercise, acupuncture, massage therapy and sex can also stimulate endorphin secretion, but the Russian team say none of those methods is as effective as a good caning.
"Kata sekumpulan saintis Rusia yang diketuai oleh ahli biologi Sergei Speransky, memukul dengan kuat di bahagian punggung adalah penawar terbaik untuk mengubati bermacam-macam masalah daripada depresi hinggalah masalah ketagihan arak dengan membebaskan "bahan kimia kegembiraan" tubuh yang dikenal sebagai "endorphins".


Yang menariknya, terapi rotan itu kini sudah menjadi suatu cara untuk mendapatkan pendapatan yang lumayan. Berdasarkan artikel di bawah, kini terapi rotan itu dikenakan bayaran sebanyak $A140 untuk satu sesi. Kalau saintis Barat berkata begitu, MENGAPA PUAK SEKULARISME & HAK ASASI MANUSIA DI NEGARA INI MENGATAKAN BAHAWA TINDAKAN ITU ZALIM & MELANGGAR HAK ASASI MANUSIA? Moralnya ialah, jangan melulu menuduh sesuatu sebelum membuat kajian dan penyelidikan. Jangan juga mengikut pendapat orang secara melulu, nanti orang kata kita bodoh sombong: sudahlah malas belajar apabila hendak diajar tetapi tidak mahu, akibatnya jadi bodoh kerana bersikap sombong. Yang pasti, Tuhan itu Maha Berkuasa & Maha Mengetahui, jadi janganlah membangkang hukum Tuhan!




Dr Speransky, head of biological sciences at the Novosibirsk Institute of Medicine, said you could eat chocolate, exercise then have a caning. "That way you can get a maximum dose of endorphins."